Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Stay positive!

In today's hectic life, we are bound to face lots of problems. This will inevitably drag us down. So, what do we do? Do we just throw in the towel and wallow in our self-pity?

Of course not!

Here are some tips on being positive:

1. Remember that God always gives us a challenge which He knows we can handle. It's just a state of mind! If we believe that we can solve our problems in the best way possible, of course God willing, we can! Be closer to God and pray hard for His guidance in whatever you do.

2. Always remember that somewhere out there, there are people who have harder challenges that you do. Try to keep things in perspective and whatever you do, don't panic!

3. Try to channel your negative thoughts in a more productive way. Maybe you can write down your thoughts in a journal, do something active because it'll make you feel less restless, be around positive-minded people and do any other activity which you think might benefit you.

4. Try to talk with others, especially those whom you trust. When you talk things through with your close friend(s), you'll feel as if a burden has been lifted off your shoulders! Don't keep to yourself or else you'll be a walking time bomb, just waiting to explode! Boom!

5. Take one day at a time. Try not to be overwhelmed with your current situation.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulation Aileen!
At last, you've come out with your own blog. It's interesting that you bring the concept of women here.
Keep sharing for the betterment of our self and community!

Anonymous said...

Dear kak aileen...
I miss u a lot.i wish i could meet and hug u and kiss u and sit with u sharing our stories. i love to read your blog. it makes me proud to be me. your words are my inspiration. every morning when i wake up i set my mind of being a wholesome person for the day. i'm doing it everyday now. I'm so grateful to Allah for showering me with His love and for giving me such a wonderful sister like you...