Love ourselves first!

I have met a lot of women who feel that they are worth nothing without a man by their side.
This is wrong!

What women have to realise is that they are indeed special individuals and have so much to give to the people around them and to the world!
If the right man happens to come along and is very supportive of her, then by all means it was meant to be.
However there are tons of women out there who still haven't found their Mr. Right and blamed themselves for it. It's not the woman's fault if she can't find a decent guy. The reality is that decent guys are very few and hard to come by. What most women have unfortunately found are jerks, morons, egomaniacs and womanisers.

Are we suppose to settle for just any tom, dick or harry?
Have you ever seen a cow with wings?

While Mr. Right takes a little bit of time finding his way to our doorstep, women must realise that life must go on! Time and tide waits for no woman or man!

We must still carry on with our lives, try to achieve our ambition and uncover our potential!
It could be about pursuing our studies, start a new business, or try to get a promotion at our workplace. The thing that we have to remember is that we have so much untapped potential that is not dependent on whether we have a man by our side or not!

I'm not saying that women should live without men, no, of course not.
What I'm trying to say is that women should pursue their own endeavours and if by some twist of fate that our Mr. Right should happen to come along, then so be it.

If he hasn't appeared yet, don't worry.
Remember that God has a bigger plan for all of us and if He says that we will meet our Mr. Right , we will meet him sooner or later.

To all those women out there who are still clinging on to the jerks in their lives..just think, is it really worth it? What are you truly afraid of? Being alone? Being ostracised by society?

The reality hits you when you realise that you can't stand his philandering ways or his constant lies or the way he either mentally or physically abuses you...

When you yourself have come to the realisation that enough is enough, then make the decision that is the best for you!
Everything that happens to us is a direct effect of our own decisions or indecisions..

Life is all about decisions. Making the decision to be in a loveless relationship that is full of lies and deceit is only a recipe for future heartache, resentment and disaster.
However being alone is an even more frightening idea for some women.

Whatever decision a woman makes, she must remember that it is she and she alone that makes the decision and not anyone else. In making a decision there will always be risks involved.
Weigh the pros and the cons and remember that only you will have to live with your decision and no one else.